It is no surprise

I think of them all the time, there is not a day that passes that they don’t enter into my mind. She more than him, popping in, making my heart stop for a moment, it building up the walls to the emotions that threaten it. In addition to the everyday, there are those touchstone days that happen throughout the year that add another layer, Christmas is one of those.

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Here is the code

We all have to-do lists. For me, it keeps me somewhat organized:  running a business, doing advocacy work, getting ready for the holidays, throwing surprise parties, etc. But there are those items that are super hard. Like, I don’t wanna hard. And FYI, there are some details in this you may not want to read if you are sensitive. Not many and not graphic, but being one who is sensitive to things, trying to be empathetic to others. Continue reading